This passage can go on and on about the same thing but you get where I am going with it. You'll get your respect in the end believe me. Let me tell you, honesty is the best policy all around. I know in relationships people have a major time being honest because they fear they will hurt their love ones. Once you tell one, you have to keep telling them to cover up the last one. What's the purpose? Lies are a continuing thing. Don't try to act like Janet met you at the damn club and ya'll danced the night away. Shyt, if you met Janet Jackson and got an autograph then say it. I mean and who wants to be around a liar anyway?īottom line is this, respect yourself, accept yourself, be honest with yourself. It just makes you think the worst of them like no matter what they say, they have to be lying even if the truth is right there in front of them. I'll tell you this, I have a lot more respect for a person with NO job, 3 kids, 4 teeth and a cane that's honest than a beautiful person, 1 child, married with the perfect set of pearlies that's dishonest about the color shirt they have on. If you aren't happy then change yourself!! Don't take the lazy way out by lying about your status in life. I mean what does that say about yourself? I'll tell you what it says about you, that you are obviously not happy with who you are. I mean shoot, people are going to find something one way or another not to like you so why not just be who you are in the first place? It really bothers me when people fabricate the truth to make themselves look better. I don't understand why people change their status to please others. But say goodbye in peace, if for no other reason but your own need to survive and live well.Hi world, I know its been some time since I wrote in here but I needed to get this out for my lil brother just to help him figure some things out. There is a time to say hello and there is definitely a time to say goodbye. And someone to stand by them, even if from afar.īut don't ever forget about yourself in the midst of loving and forgiving. Because to me, those who are the most difficult in life usually have the toughest stories, and as cliche as it may sound, need love the most. So many times I've been hurt by someone or betrayed by someone or talked to like I'm nothing by someone. I could hate so many people in my life right now.
Marques: me too Me: Pshh you don't have to lie to kick it, i know you gotta pair. Me: I hate it when guys wear skinny jeans. Basically its hiding something from someone or lying about something to fit in. Anger, on the other hand, well, fuck them, right? But what does anger do? Does it solve anything? Isn't it better to forgive and be at peace and thankful for everything you learned and gained from someone or something? At least that's what I think. What does 'Lie To Kick it' mean It means you don't have to lie to impress a person or to be accepted.
It's easier than feeling broken and hurt because that feels very uncontrollable. Quite often this is the feeling you want to feel compared to others. Thankful for understanding and honesty and peace between two souls who will forever be connected. And when I saw him for the last time once again, I was thankful. Thankful for the opportunity to rewrite an ending that, for quite some time, didn't sit right with me. The truth is, that through it all, he made me a more compassionate person, a more patient person, a more forgiving person, a more understanding person, a more loving person, a more hopeful person, and a more passionate person, for better or worse.Īnd when I saw him for the first time again, 7 years later, I was thankful. It's funny who comes into your life and when. I only remember the the brokenness that I felt. It's funny what your mind holds on to and, at the same time, what you will never recall again. I can remember throwing up all over my gray American Eagle skirt as I drove back to his house, begging. I can remember how my heart felt like it was dead as I sat on the blacktop of a playground parking lot, begging. I can vividly remember running through campus that day feeling everything all at once, trying to get to my car, begging. How it feels like you are breaking internally. How you can't imagine feeling whole again. Think about how debilitating that feeling is. To have an empty mind with thoughts constantly running through it. Think about how it felt to not be able to breathe, not be able to focus, not be able to think about anything else, not be able to plan anything past what is happening at that current moment.
When you could feel the hollowness as the pain poured out simultaneously. Think about that time when you could actually feel the pain searing through your body. I want you to think about how it feels to have your heart broken. Lyrics You Aint Gotta Lie To Kick It by Silkk the Shocker, Mia X, Big Ed Intro.